How Cupidt finds your person.
No swiping. No grids of faces to grade. Here is exactly how a Cupidt introduction happens — and who we let in.
The journey — six beatsWe can't manufacture chemistry — nobody can. We stack every measurable odd in its favor, and if the picture isn't sharp enough, we don't introduce and we don't charge. We'd rather ask you another question than sell you the wrong person.
Qualifications — who gets in✓ 18 or older — no exceptions, verified against ID.
✓ A real, verified human — government ID + liveness, re-verified over time. One human, one account, ever.
✓ One honest photo — face visible, actually you. The rest can wait for the chat.
✓ Here for something real — six minutes of questions answered with care.
✓ Kind by default — standing is earned; experiences are rated both ways, moderated before they count, and harsh reviews can be petitioned.
✗ What ends membership: fake or misleading photos, unverifiable identity, harassment or cruelty, letting anyone else use your account. One club rule above all: every member is a real person — treat them like one.
Matching needs density. Each city opens when enough verified humans have joined — balanced, so nobody waits in an empty room. Signing up puts your city on the map and moves it up the list.
Find your soulmate ✦